Mark Groves
Season 6, Episode 5: Creating Love with Mark Groves.
“ I think the real work is to actually restore a sacred relationship with ourselves and that occurs through our relationship to other things, other people because that's such a mirror of where we’re not yet liberated. Where we can’t love, where we can’t relax, where we can’t trust.”
Human Connection Specialist, podcast host and Create The Love founder Mark Groves, joined Caggie in Season 3 of Saturn Returns. This episode struck a chord with many of you, and so we have brought him back to share more of his wisdom!
The previous episode covered Love Languages and the anxious attachment dance and Caggie explains how this was a pivotal conversation in finding the partner she has now.
Mark also explains why we pursue unavailable people, how to handle rejection, the roles we play out in relationships, how we can show up more fully and in true Saturnian form, how to take more responsibility for ourselves and our patterns. Ultimately, how the level of honesty and intimacy we can reach in partnership is a direct reflection of the honesty and intimacy we can reach in ourselves.
If you’d like to listen to the first episode with Mark titled ‘Relationships and Love Languages,’ head back to season 3, episode 7.
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IN THIS EPISODE WE DISCUSS:
The Pursuit of unavailability
Relational patterns
Vulnerability & Healing behavioural patterns
Victimhood and Victim mentality
Provider Relationships, Feminism and wanting to be cared for
Principle of influence and reciprocity
Unconsious contracts that we make with ourselves and others
taking responsibility for bad things that might happen
Self-anchoring and reverence
WHERE TO FIND MARK GROVES:
@createthelove on Instagram
